Pain.

“Maybe we like the pain. Maybe we're wired that way. Because without it, I don't know; maybe we just wouldn't feel real. What's that saying? Why do I keep hitting myself with a hammer? Because it feels so good when I stop.” - Grey's Anatomy

No matter how many times you tell yourself you're over it, that aching pain is still going to be there. How do you tell the wrong from the right? How do you know what your doing is wrong or right? are we made to function in a specific way? I dont think so.
Its okay to hurt. Its okay to feel.
But what isnt so okay is forgiving and forgetting.
Yes, sometimes that might be advisable to avoid a dispute or just to put an end to a very long worthless fight.
But sometimes its not easy to forget. We cant make ourselves forget no matter how much we want to.
And forgiving. Well, thats a whole different story.
Are you forgiving cause you sincerely mean it?
Are you forgiving to put a stop to it?
Are you forgiving cause you have no other choice?
Are you forgiving cause you're afraid to lose that someone?
Or are you forgiving cause you just dont want to believe it ever happened?
Its not an option to forgive and forget, its a choice we make.
we make that choice for the better or for the worse.

Sometimes its not the matter of if you want to or not, its that you CAN'T.
You just cant make yourself forget that horrible memory or infact forgive that person after what they've done to you.
Yes, it may seem more mature to move the hell on and forget about it all. But we all have our own ways of getting over something and moving on.
And thats when I come to my conclusion readers.
Two words.
FUCK IT.
and drink to that =D